Monday, November 7, 2011

Sex trafficking & Demi and Ashton’s DNA Foundation

Human trafficking is officially defined as the “illegal trade of human beings for the purposes of reproductive slavery, commercial sexual exploitation, forced labor, or a modern-day form of slavery.” For the purposes of R.I.S.E. I’m going to only discuss the human trafficking that involves sex trafficking.



“Sex trafficking victims are generally found in dire circumstances and easily targeted by traffickers. Individuals, circumstances, and situations vulnerable to traffickers include homeless individuals, runaway teens, displaced homemakers, refugees, and drug addicts. While it may seem like trafficked people are the most vulnerable and powerless minorities in a region, victims are consistently exploited from any ethnic and social background.

Traffickers, also known as pimps or madams, exploit vulnerabilities and lack of opportunities, while offering promises of marriage, employment, education, and/or an overall better life. However, in the end, traffickers force the victims to become prostitutes or work in the sex industry. Various work in the sex industry includes prostitution, dancing in strip clubs, performing in pornographic films and pornography, and other forms of involuntary servitude.”




Statistics vary, but below are some that can help give you a general idea of how severe this problem is:

• In 2005, the Department of Justice reported there have been an estimated 100,000 to 150,000 sex slaves in the U.S. since 2001.

• Official numbers of individuals in sexual slavery worldwide vary. In 2001 International Organization for Migration estimated 400,000, the Federal Bureau of Investigation estimated 700,000 and UNICEF estimated 1.75 million.

• As of 2009, almost 300,000 American children are at risk for trafficking into the sex industry.

• There are girls as young as 5 and 6 years old in the U.S. that are forced to do sexual acts for economic gain by their pimp.

• The Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention reported 1,600 juveniles were arrested for prostitution and commercialized vice in 2006; 74% were female and 14% were under 14 years old.

• Since 2003, 308 pimps and hookers have been convicted in (U.S.) state and federal courts of forcing youngsters into prostitution and 433 child victims have been rescued.

• 797,500 children (younger than 18) were reported missing in a one-year period of time studied resulting in an average of 2,185 children being reported missing each day.

• UNICEF reports approximately 30 million children have lost their childhood through sexual exploitation over the past 30 years.

• People are trafficked from 127 countries to be exploited in 137 countries.

• The total market value of illicit human trafficking is estimated to be in excess of $32 billion.

• The International Labor Organization—the UN agency charged with addressing labor standards, employment, and social protection issues—estimates that there are at least 12.3 million adults and children in forced labor, bonded labor, and commercial sexual servitude at any given time. Of these victims, 1.4 million are victims of commercial sexual servitude. Also, 56% of all forced labor victims are women and girls.

• It was reported in 2010 that Thailand and Brazil were considered to have the worst child sex trafficking records.




Real victims, real abuse. Below are some stories of survivors of the sex trafficking trade:

• In 2008, a mother and the man she lived with made her a dominatrix and schooled her in the ways of violent sex when she was only 12. By the time she reached 14, they had billed her as “Mistress Alisha,” and they offered her online for two years to service the sadomasochistic fantasies of anyone willing to pay.

• In 2009, two Macon, Georgia men were indicted on charges that they locked a 14-year-old girl in a house and forced her to have sex with up to 15 people, then sold her for $500.

• In many parts of the world, child prostitution is tolerated and ignored by the authorities. Reflecting an attitude which prevails in many developing countries, a judge from Honduras says, on condition of anonymity: "If the victim [the child-prostitute] is older than 12, if he or she refuses to file a complaint, and if the parents clearly profit from their child's commerce, we tend to look the other way."

• Debbie – Kidnapped from her own driveway, gang raped, and forced into prostitution for more than 40 days, being kept and treated worse than a dog, too scared to leave for fear of them hurting her family.

• Miya – Lured into a modeling job, kidnapped, and trapped into prostitution far away from home.

Read both Debbie and Miya’s stories here: http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/story?id=1596778&page=1#.TriUi_QUqso




So what’s being done about all this?

“The Protocol to Prevent, Suppress and Punish Trafficking in Persons, especially Women and Children (also referred to as the Trafficking Protocol) was adopted by the United Nations in Palermo, Italy in 2000, and is an international legal agreement attached to the United Nations Convention against Transnational Organized Crime

The Protocol is the first global, legally binding instrument on trafficking in over half a century and the only one that sets out an agreed definition of trafficking in persons. The purpose of the Protocol is to facilitate convergence in national cooperation in investigating and prosecuting trafficking in persons. An additional objective of the Protocol is to protect and assist the victims of trafficking in persons with full respect for their human rights.

The Trafficking Protocol entered into force on 25 December 2003. By June 2010, the Trafficking Protocol had been ratified by 117 countries and 137 parties.”



Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher have a foundation called “Demi and Ashton DNA Foundation.” They do a very good job breaking down what human trafficking is, and how you can help.




“The DNA Foundation supports and develops innovative programs that address the root causes of child sex slavery. Our programs focus on reducing demand, disrupting the marketplaces in which these transactions take place, and helping educate vulnerable children about the realities of trafficking. DNA is a U.S.-based nonprofit organization.”

If you would like to read more about DNA or donate you can visit their page at: http://www.demiandashton.org/ or visit their facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/dnafoundation?sk=info

Pictures courtesy of DNA’s facebook page and http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Map3.3Trafficking_compressed.jpg

More Statistics and info:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_trafficking
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_trafficking
http://www.crisisaid.org/ICAPDF/Trafficking/traffickstats.pdf
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/slaves/etc/stats.html
http://cup.columbia.edu/book/978-0-231-13960-1/sex-trafficking/excerpt
https://www.humantrafficking.neu.edu/
http://istoptraffic.com/html/human_trafficking_info.html

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Day by Day - His Story

This was from a friend and R.I.S.E. member who asked if I'd post it anonymously in regards to suicide.

"It was official. I was a Private Military Contractor, or PMC. A PMC is a soldier who is hired out to provide fighting support, reconnaissance, personal protection, or simply security to those who cannot provide these services for themselves, many times due to political reasoning. There are many other names for PMCs including mercenary, or soldier of fortune, but I prefer the more politically correct name of private contractor. To each other we are simply known as; “operators”. It is funny, the misconception that people have regarding PMCs, and all one has to do is watch a few Steven Seagal movies and those misconceptions will be displayed in high-definition.

I was hired by a large private military company to act as their operations manager. I was in charge of all operations from the West Coast of the US, and operations South of the United States in several third world countries. Although I was in charge of these areas, I seldom traveled to them, except when there were problems that needed addressing. By that time, things could be really out of control. I wished that I was still in the Army, but a knee injury during a rappel ended my career, so I was forced into the same work, only for much more money and with less politics and even less rules. As a PMC it is simple; if it is a bad guy, then take them out. It is that simple, and there are seldom repercussions for engaging someone, even if they are unarmed. That is the way our beautiful world works. While the poor sops in our armed forces were having to wait to get shot at, we were already engaging and destroying targets that we perceived as a threat.

On the date of February 27th 2006 I was on duty as a sniper, covering the movements of equipment and convoys, at a location inside CONUS (Continental United States). It may sound exciting, but in actuality it amounted to this: A corporation had Teamster Union problems and were experiencing vandalism of equipment, with damages approaching one million dollars US. My job was simple, observe and call in the security force when activity was spotted. When the team arrived it was my job, as sniper, to insure their safety, and provide a documentary evidence of said conflict. It was nothing new to me, for the previous 2 years I had been doing audits, or breaking into secured facilities and writing reports as to the effectiveness of their security that was already in place. I had done these “assaults” all over the US and in select other countries. Everything from Harbors to Airports have seen my wrath as I have engaged in activities, which at times had severe penalties if I was caught. The last place I wanted to see was the inside of a third world country’s prison simply because I got careless. All of this for Businesses, Celebrities, Politicians, and Government Agencies at home and abroad, who somehow felt that my services were necessary to help them better prepare for trouble, and so that when trouble came knocking, they would know how to answer. The only problem here is security. Police and military are never informed of what you are doing, so they do not realize that it is a test, thus it is easy to get shot and killed by these forces, so you make sure that you have enough ammunition to get yourself out of Hell, should the gates open up! Back to 2006. While I was crawling and dragging my gear, I had a painful snap and the pain shot from my neck down to the tips of my fingers. As a sniper I had roughly 90 lbs of gear with me. Video Cameras, Night Vision, Combat Equipment, Change of Clothing, Weapon with lots of ammunition, all of this translates to excessive weight, which was the cause of my injury. After approximately 16 hours, I was relieved of my duties and driven to the nearest hospital. After several hours, I received a diagnosis and was given morphine for the pain and sent on my way. The company I worked for immediately told me that I was no longer fit for deployment (because of my injury) and terminated my contract. The healing process was much longer than I had anticipated, taking over 4 years to have 6 surgical procedures on my shoulder & hand.

The injury itself combined with all of my other injuries (70 fractures, 35 concussions/ head wounds, and being stabbed, slashed, gutted, and shot) caused a unique pain syndrome to set in. I was living in pain, day-in day-out. Ultra Strong pain medication only took the edge off of the pain, but made living hard to say the least do to putting me in a narcotic state of mind. Apparently me being home and injured was not what my now ex-wife had dreamed for her future, and she decided to start an affair with a young man from the next town over. Not being one who enjoys drama, I simply divorced her, and now have joint custody of my two children, ages 3 and 4. My oldest son is named after me, Dusty Jay, while my youngest is named after a knife (something I hold dear to me) Bowie Wyatt. While going through multiple surgeries I had yet another obstacle to clear which was forced upon me. I actually had a newspaper retaliate against me for something I did calling me a security guard who is a “wanna-be hitman”. I thought about suing the newspaper for slander, which I would have won, however, it would probably still be in litigation if I had done so. It may not seem like much,but when you have dedicated your life to it and suffered heavy repercussions for it, all for the protection of people, it leaves a bad taste in your mouth about humanity in general.

Due to my divorce, public lack of acceptance, and the constant pain, I began spiraling downward. Despite having 2 kids that needed me, I felt that my life was over. When I began my career I was told that the average lifespan of someone in my line of work was only to the age of 30, and that is what I had planned as my expiration date. Now here I am at 33 years old, and I do not have a clue how the rest of my life is going to go. It is hard for me to talk about it, but I had contemplated ending my life, for it seemed the world no longer had a place for me. I felt less than worthless, not because of any one thing, but rather a conglomeration of things, which included living in intense pain, day-in day-out. I tried it all…but no success, just more pain. It seems that certain things from my past which strengthened me, also made me more vulnerable to ending my life, for example taking a full bottle of pain killers (Demerol, morphine, or even Hydros). I have a large collection of weapons, however would never use them to end my life because of a simple philosophy. With all of the violence and pain in my life, I desire for my death to be gentle, not violent…So I got passed this after a few botched attempts, which simply led to stomach aches and terrible constipation (Yes, more pain)...

I have found that I must live day by day, each day finding a new reason to press onward. Be they my children, recreational activities, my loved ones, or longing for physical affection (After all I am still a man). With all of my problems I know that one day my body will say, “OK enough is enough”, but until that day I am at the mercy of my pain countered only by my desires, which at times are just a mere glimmer, but at other times burn with a fiery passion. I have learned that suicide is never the answer. I suppose for every person the answer is something different, no universal answer can be inserted. It is my hope that others do not pass down the road which I have, for it is a lonely road of pain. And with that pain comes depression, and with the depression, stupid thoughts. Conquering it has been the most consummate enemy I have encountered. . .

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"Not a Victim" - Poem

"Not A Victim"

Struggles
pain
disappointments
betrayals
manipulation
emotional abuse

I have had my share
of misfortunes
but I refuse
to call myself
a victim

You know why?
because
I faced my demons
and I fought back!

I'm a warrior,
a fighter,
and
I have the scars
to prove it.

-An Anonymous Friend

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"Incested" - Poem

"Incested"

She learned real young in life,
In order to get by,
She must do what is expected,
And never question why...

It didn't seem to matter
How she felt - or why she cried...
Each time she was incested,
More child-likeness died.

Too young to understand
Why she deserved this thing,
She buried her emotions
And the torture it would bring.

He said that she must never
Tell another living soul -
Too small to know the reason,
Yet she knew she wasn't whole.

She felt it was imprinted
For all the world to see -
I am dirty...I am ugly...
Please...don't look at me.

She'd never heard of shame,
Yet she knew its symptoms well...
The harder that she tried, it seemed,
The harder then, she fell...

She knew she was responsible
For everybody's pain,
So she tried hard to fix it
Over...and over...again.

-Shannon L. Spardlin, "Does God Know About This?" (Henderson, Nevada 1993), 56.

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"Unknown" - Poem

"Unknown"

Tears bloom in my eyes
Traffic lights splintered
Creating eerie images
Distorted, disturbing

Memories came crashing in
Unbidden, unwelcome
Afraid to feel it on the spot
Afraid to cast it away

Yet somehow I knew
In feeling there is healing
Os so they say
I know the opposite is true

No feeling - no healing
Only postponed pain
Now my time has come to feel
My time to heal

-"Unknown" from Shelter from the Storm activity book.

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Movie Recommendation #2 - Speak: Date Rape

From the R.I.S.E. Facebook:

“You see, if something’s eating at you you gotta find a way to use it.” – Melinda

-In the movie, Melinda uses the pain of her date-rape to create art. This is not a solution, but it can help the healing process. Try it sometime. –Kylie [Founder/President]

“It happened. There's no avoiding it. No forgetting.” – Melinda

-Many people shut out what happened to them, and some even repress memories, but in order to heal, we have to face it. We have to accept that it happened, and there’s nothing we can do about it. Only then can we begin healing. –Kylie [Founder/President]

“I think you should know what you stand for, not just what you're against. You should be able to show how things can be better.” – Melinda

-Don’t just focus on the negative, but focus on how you can make it better. I think this also applies to RISE. We try not to just talk about the negative things, but we try to focus more on ways to make it better, because most of us know how horrible this stuff is, but not everyone knows that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. And that light’s name is Hope. =] –Kylie [Founder/President]


*Please note that if you haven't seen this movie, prepare for a lot of flashbacks of the very realistic and disturbing rape scene. However, the end result is very healing, especially for those who have been through it. It helped me a lot... -Kylie [Founder/President]

SooMee:

I have seen that movie and I thought the end was awesome.

The movie I had trouble watching and still do; I get flashbacks, flinchy, withdraw for awhile. I can't really say there is a good ending to it and it makes me want to kill the mother, but watching it in a way helped me to express myself and let me know it's ok to cry.

Kylie:

Movies are a good doorway to healing, and even though the road can be bumpy and uncomfortable, in the end, it's worth it. =]

Thanks for sharing!

Kylie [RM]
RISE Founder/President

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Movie Recommendation #1 - Forrest Gump: Incest & Suicide


From the R.I.S.E. Facebook:


“Dear God, make me a bird, so I can fly far, far away from here.” – Young Jenny

- Young Jenny is abused by her father, and one day she tries to escape…

“Mama always said God is mysterious. He didn't turn Jenny into a bird that day. But instead - he had the police say Jenny didn't have to stay in that house no more.” – Forrest

- In Jenny’s case, she was rescued from her father. Although it was too late, better late than never.

“Do you think I could fly off this bridge, Forrest?” – Jenny

- Years later, the abuse Jenny experienced as a child has taken over, and she contemplates suicide…

* Many victims of rape and incest turn to thoughts of suicide for comfort. They think that if they could just end their life, their problems would go away. But it isn’t true. No one truly knows what happens when we die, but in our gut, we all know suicide isn’t the answer. It is not a way out, and in fact may cause more problems than it solves. If you are contemplating suicide, talk to someone. Chances are, you aren’t as alone as you think. ;] -Kylie [Founder/President]

“Why are you so good to me?” – Jenny [to Forrest]

* When people who have been victims in the past, especially of incest [or child abuse of any kind], many have a tendency to subconsciously search for a mate who will treat them like dirt, because they were raised to feel like they didn’t deserve anything better. The shame and guilt [which was never theirs to own but which they own anyway] becomes so big in their life that part of them actually wants the abuse to continue. Many end up in abusive relationships because of this, and so end up right back where they started. If you grew up in an abusive household, remember that it was not your fault, and you deserve better. Find someone like Forrest Gump – someone who will be good to you, despite what you grew up with. Having supportive people around us helps with the healing. -Kylie [Founder/President]

”Sometimes, I guess there just aren't enough rocks.” – Forrest

- Jenny finally goes back to the house where she grew up and experienced so much abuse. This scene is very powerful, especially for those who can identify with her.

“My Mama always said you've got to put the past behind you before you can move on.” – Forrest

* This is so true. RISE is about a lot of things, but I like to think that the main thing we are about is healing. In order to heal, we do have to acknowledge what happened, and face it head on, but then we need to begin the process of putting what happened behind us so that we can move on and not give it power over our lives and our futures. It’s hard, but with a lot of work and the support of each other, healing is possible. And that is the message I hope RISE sends out more than anything – that there is hope for healing =] -Kylie [Founder/President]

Have you seen this movie? If so, what effect did it have on you? Please comment and let us know! ♥

Comments:
“My Mama always said you've got to put the past behind you before you can move on.” – Forrest

My thoughts on this quote:

"R.I.S.E. Above"

The main goal/motto of R.I.S.E. Is to help people "R.I.S.E. Above" all troubles and obstacles. That quote is very right on with Rising Above...

-Eric [Vice President]


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